Envy of neighbors– this is a classic of the genre! Re-educating your neighbor will cost you more, and you don’t need to do it.

• How to reduce the amount of envy towards yourself without re-educating your overly “active” neighbors?

Neighborhood envy has always existed and, apparently, no changes in this matter are expected in the near future. Neighbors envy most of all not some distant billionaires whom they are forced to watch every day on television, but those who are closer to them.

• Do they feel jealous of billionaires? But what about... But the truth is that the bag of potatoes that you dragged into your apartment “concerns” them much more than the untold wealth of the unattainable rich.

This is especially true in small towns, where everyone knows each other and envy mainly not some American rich people who are unknown where they are, but their closest neighbors who managed to somehow stand out from the gray mass. In some village, even an old Zaporozhets bought with the last money will cause a storm of indignation and negative emotions among some neighbors who are not even able to afford it.

WHY ARE THE NEIGHBORS ENVY??

We can try to live more modestly, simply, without standing out too much, without sticking out and without being too conspicuous to our neighbors with our wealth. The only thing is that this is a path of degradation. Even if you stop developing and achieving anything at all, one of your neighbors will still masterfully find something in you that he simply cannot help but envy. This is, unfortunately, human nature. Changing and re-educating neighbors is pointless in all respects. It is much wiser and more rational to change yourself. At what plan? Change yourself, your life, income level and place of residence.

If you spit on all your neighbors and begin to develop intensively, striving to get to greener places, rich areas, big cities, central areas of megalopolises, etc., then you can personally save yourself from a large amount of envy and bile coming from insignificant people. People who have focused all their energy not on self-improvement, but on looking for flaws and reasons for envy in their closest neighbors.

Imagine that you have achieved a lot with your work and purchased a luxurious apartment in an elite building in one of the central districts of Kyiv, Odessa, Minsk, Moscow... What do you think? Will your new neighbors faint from a sack of potatoes? And from Zaporozhets? Even if you buy a Mercedes, then, believe me, against the general background of the prestigious cars of the residents of this elite house, no one will even notice your new thing. Here you need to take care not to envy your wealthier and more successful neighbors.

By the way, living in a poor environment and literally feeling the constant envy of their poor neighbors who are offended by the lives of their poor neighbors, many cannot withstand this pressure and begin to subconsciously limit their desires, striving to have less and less, if only their immediate environment would accept them as one of their own and not be too is critical of them. Being in the middle of a swamp, willy-nilly, but gradually you yourself begin to degrade and slide down the slope.

• It is psychologically difficult for many people to fly too high from the gray mass, since a crowd of losers with great pleasure will condemn and wash all the bones of an insolent person who dreams of something more. Not everyone is able to withstand this pressure.

Living in a prestigious place and adjacent to neighbors who are more prosperous in every sense, you will be much less likely to encounter manifestations of envy, since the heads of the successful

Wherever they live in a city apartment. in a private house we all have neighbors. It’s good if these neighbors become our friends, but what if they don’t? If people are ready for war? If they are haunted by our success, our children, our purchases. And life turns into a complete nightmare. The funny thing is that from time to time people write letters asking for a ritual to punish a neighbor or asking for help in making a magical dirty trick. I did the opposite and decided to just give the spells. who will help solve this problem without harm to themselves and their neighbors. I gave one of the rituals. article dated May 20, 2012 “If the same person is doing dirty tricks”

Let's start with psychology, you can't live without it...

1. Neighbors, they are still strangers. Don't be honest with them: don't boast or complain

If you brag, you will cause envy; if you complain, they may gloat.

2. Look for positive traits even in the most evil neighbors. Nobody forces them to love you, but these traits will help you respect them.

4. Don't force yourself on your neighbors, and don't let them force themselves on you. If you disagree with something, find reasons to convince them.

5. do not give advice that you are not asked for, as this may be perceived as an invasion of privacy

6. Do not show your superiority to your neighbors in anything,

7. Don't gossip about other neighbors. And if you are provoked, avoid. Usually those people who discuss others with you will savor you with these others.

8. Don’t interrupt your interlocutor

9. Try not to let people think badly of your neighbors.

10. Be friendly.

11. Don't be afraid to admit your mistakes. This will help your neighbors become more friendly, as they will understand that you are also a human being and can make mistakes.

12. Don’t judge others for their mistakes “Judge not and you will not be judged!”

13. Don't make demands from your neighbors. for them to be perfect - they don’t happen.

Now let's talk our house.

1. Write a spell on a stick:

“There is an oak tree, Dorotheus, on the seashore, under that oak tree sits the woman Salomena

The same woman Salomena washes away and dissuades the servant of God (name) from the house

rumors, rumors, courts, gossip and envy.

Don’t be in my house with rumors, rumors, judgments, gossip, envy from no one else

neither naked nor simple-haired. Queen Voditsa, red maiden, you wash the steep banks,

yellow sands, wash my temple from every bad word. Amen.

Take a leaflet with a plot. Stand facing your door with your back to the house, whisper a curse, burn the leaf, and scatter the ashes in front of the house.

One of the most powerful destructive feelings of a person is envy. This is a powerful energy that can shake the peace and harmony in your home or work if someone envy you with black envy. This can be resisted. There is a sure way - a conspiracy against envy, which will not allow your envious people to have the opportunity to disturb the peace of your family, start casting the evil eye, and poison your life. The joy of your success in business, at work, in the family can prompt a less fortunate person to take desperate measures, even to the point of damnation.

This cannot be allowed - the conspiracy ritual is complex, but doable. You have everything you need at home, and, most importantly, you have the strength to withstand hostile influences.

Several ways to fight against the evil eye

Your house is full, you have success at work and money just flows into your hands? On the one hand, you are lucky, but on the other hand, your successes can greatly anger your neighbors, colleagues and unlucky relatives. Envy is in human nature - for many it would be easier to deprive you of everything, rather than work hard to achieve success. For you, protection from the harmful influence of enemies should be an important task. Envy gives rise to powerful negative energy in a person, which pours out on you in the form of the evil eye, damage, and curse. The most popular methods:

• A strong conspiracy that will protect you and your family and protect your home from losses and conflicts.
• Amulets created by you that have a long-lasting effect. You can carry them with you, place them at home or at work.

In any case, you need faith in your strength, your positive energy to protect yourself from the evil eye. Success is something that comes, it exists today, but may not exist tomorrow. Keeping him on your side longer, not letting evil tongues and eyes take your fortune away from you is not an easy task, but it is doable.

You will need a strong charge of positive energy, a good ability to visualize the result. To develop it, meditate more often, imagine your successes, the smiles of loved ones, the praise of your boss and work colleagues, your friends. The brighter your visualization of the positive moments of life, the easier it will be to find energy to perform the ritual.

Conspiracy from the evil eye and black tongue

A strong method of protection, suitable for pacifying an envious person and preventing ignorance from casting the evil eye on you. A person, out of envy, spreads rumors towards you, says bad things about you - it is better to immediately arm yourself against his envy.

The Icon of the Most Holy Theotokos will come to your aid. If you already have it in your house, great, but if not, buy it at the church store. This method will allow you to get rid of envious people and not allow them to cast the evil eye or damage on you.

• The conspiracy is done at midnight;
• The text is read in a half-whisper;
• You will need seven candles from the church, holy water;
• Before you begin, wish well and good luck for your enemies, because you are turning to the Most Holy Theotokos for help, and, therefore, asking from the bottom of your heart;
• Read the plot 7 times, looking at the burning candles:

“The envy of caustic people will not be in me, I’d rather keep silent about my merit. I will hide my income, there is grace in my soul, Let evil eyes not see it. I will hide any successes within myself, then I will preserve the health of my family. And if this dirt has already started, I’ll burn it with fire - it will drive away the attack. I will wish my enemies victory in fate, And I will bury the evil tar in the ground. Amen! Amen! Amen!"

• Drink holy water;
• Wait until the candles burn out, and bury the cinders in a deserted place.

The conspiracy should have an effect on your enemies; your positive wishes for happiness and good luck for them will make them forget evil speeches, stop looking in your direction with envy and spreading bad rumors. This conspiracy should protect you from the evil eye, if it has already been cast. The ritual is strong, it uses powerful energies from the consecrated icon, holy water and church candles - it literally survives all the bad and negative things that had an impact on you.

Conspiracy against envious glances at work

Are you quickly advancing in your career, but your colleagues cannot forgive you for your success at work? The evil eye cannot be allowed. To prevent their negative thoughts and words from affecting your success, you will need to perform a ritual after which you will be protected from any influence. If you have the opportunity to go out into nature to perform a ritual, that’s ideal. It will also work in an apartment.

• Take a bottle with a wide neck.
• Pour holy water into it.
• Say three times over the water:

“The Virgin Mary walked through the earth, washed, cleaned gray stones, white roots, cleanse - wash off me, God’s servant (his) (name) from dryness, from the tract, from black eyes, from brown eyes, from clear eyes . My words are strong and molded, stronger than stone, tighter than damask steel. Amen. Amen. Amen".

• Pour the water onto the top of your head and let it drain.

If you do it outdoors, let the water go into the ground, and if you do it at home, let it dry completely. You cannot walk in a place where this water dries up - it has absorbed all the negativity from the evil eye.

This conspiracy will protect you and make your enemies harmless. They can envy as much as they want, but their envy cannot penetrate your protective armor. This method will definitely help against those who are not doing anything obviously, just intriguing.

Protecting your home from envious people

Enemies who are extremely jealous of your well-being may be at work, one of your neighbors, or even your relatives. The house is your fortress and a safe haven, you need to protect it and keep it safe. For this there is a simple protective ritual against all enemies, no matter where they come from.

• Come in the morning to a place where there are a lot of crows - to a landfill, for example.
• Bow to the cardinal directions four times, starting from the east.
• Read the conspiracy against envy of your home and all enemies who come in the guise of friends:

“Black flocks of crows, shielded from all sides: from the dashing eye, from evil envy, deliberate, induced, early, midnight, midday. I came, the servant of God (my name), to take protection from every feather, to drive away the poisonous attack, to give it to the main raven, to open his great eye. What I came here with, I will leave without. As ordered, so done.”

Speak each word clearly, pick up a small pebble from the ground and put it in your pocket. Such charmed stones can be turned into amulets for the home. Continue:

“I turn my envious eye into this pebble and forgive everyone, visible and invisible. As the Lord God commanded.”

This part needs to be said in a loud, confident voice. Shout over a flock of birds, even if they begin to behave very noisily - your words already have power. Bring the pebble home - it will help you protect your home from the evil eye and will become a strong source of protective energy. You will soon feel which of your neighbors or friends was that evil envious person. The person himself will stop communicating and will no longer enter your house. If we talk about amulets, such a pebble will serve as an excellent source of protection.

We women sometimes don’t even imagine how often others envy us. You won’t believe it, but malicious envious people can be not only the old neighbors’ old ladies or the saleswoman from the meat department, but also our loved ones, whom we trust. How many people have stumbled over the envy of their best friend, who broke up their family. How many other women have suffered from envious colleagues at work? Imagine, siblings, brothers and even your own mother (who else could be dearer and closer?) are guilty of this vice.

I would really like to touch on the topic of envy in our modern life: what it is, how it is dangerous, from whom and how to protect ourselves, and why young children are most vulnerable.

What is envy and how is it dangerous?

Envy is a very negative and all-consuming feeling that eats a person from the inside and pushes him to do vile things. They envy beauty, success, a happy marriage, good earnings - everything that has value in the eyes of people deprived of these benefits. It is because of it that people often curse each other and destroy not only other people’s energy, but also their own.

This sinful feeling is dangerous because it begins to control the life of the envious person, and he commits vile acts to annoy someone he envies. In addition to purely moral and physical negativity, there is another danger for the victim - a weakening of the biofield, that is, energy. The more a person’s energy defense weakens, the more often he gets sick, the less success comes into his life, the worse the relationships in the family. Life forces disappear from his body under the influence of negative messages from the envious person, especially if the victim has constant contact with the pest.

Children are most susceptible to envy. It is very easy to jinx them and spoil them, because their energy is still weak, and the Guardian Angel has not gained enough power to protect him from evil. It’s not for nothing that our great-grandmothers used all sorts of spells and amulets against envious eyes and bad tongues. In fact, there are not only conspiracies, but also church prayers that help maintain a balance of power when dealing with an envious opponent.

Who is jealous of us?

So, protecting yourself and your family from envy is not only possible, but also necessary. How to do this and how to generally determine who wishes you ill? I am sure that any person who is able to listen to his feelings will feel where the “wind is blowing” from. “Symptoms” may be too frequent staring in your direction, attempts to be sarcastic and offend, spreading gossip and rumors, open actions with the aim of annoying in the absence of provocations on your part.

I can give a few examples from my own experience:

Girlfriend. She regularly discouraged me from buying things that suited me perfectly. How many times did I not listen to her, and then brought my sister, brother, aunt to try on dresses or trousers - everyone refuted her opinion. She gave me equally bad advice about young people. Those who were worthy candidates in all respects, in her words, looked like completely negative characters.

Colleague. I couldn’t understand who was so persistent in telling everyone at work that I never put money into a common pot for the holidays (that was our custom), although this was a blatant deception. Then I didn’t understand who spread the rumor that I had lost the key to an important box, although I had never held it in my hands. When the origins of the lies were finally found, I analyzed the behavior of the rumor monger from the moment we met. She always looked at me intently and did not forget to give out another portion of sarcasm about my appearance.

Dear grandmother. Grandmother has two daughters. The eldest daughter (my mother) got married successfully and has an apartment, a loving husband, two children - simple female happiness. The younger one was the less fortunate groom. They were busy with business trips and rented apartments, were able to support only one child, and purchased their own home only when they were 40 years old. Both my mother and I always felt that my grandmother had an extremely negative attitude towards any positive events in our family, but how she rejoiced at the slightest progress in her youngest daughter’s life! That granddaughter was the smartest, kindest and most decent, but my grandmother tried to find some kind of wormhole in me and my brother and spent years procrastinating on it.

If you have similar examples in your life, then I congratulate you, you are surrounded by envious people from whom you need to protect yourself.

We protect ourselves from envy without pity or regret!

I have a personal protection scheme that I have developed over the years from such malicious lovers of feeding on other people’s happiness:

• We reduce the distance between you and them as much as possible. Even if it is a close relative, try to minimize contact.
• When communicating directly, do not let the envious person touch you, your clothes, or things. Avoid physical contact.
• When insolently examining your person, also look intently and impudently at the pest, without looking away. Get the person to look away.
• With such people, it is important to learn to visualize invisible protection. For example, I imagine that around me there is a dense glass dome, from which black sharp spikes emanate in all directions, or an iron wall surrounded by water. Why water? Because it washes away negativity perfectly.
• Do not try to politely listen to the flattery of such a person. Cut him off at the approaches. Does he admire your wonderful hair? You, in turn, say that he has them even better and try to touch them with your hand. A few repelled attacks, and the envious person will fall behind.
• Don’t talk about your personal life, brag less about your successes, don’t try to stand out from the team so as not to attract a lot of negative messages from other employees. I knew a woman who lived luxuriously supported by her husband and worked in the social security department solely for seniority. She loved to invite a manicurist to her work during lunch breaks and paid almost a third of her salary for nails. I think you can imagine how many snake heads were hissing behind her back.

The best defense will be the magpie about the health of your envious person and you. It won’t be superfluous for you to cleanse yourself through a prayer request in church, but if the higher powers direct the saboteur and put him on the right path, his thoughts will stop returning to you.

Don’t forget to order prayer services for children, because it’s even easier to spoil them, and sometimes our negativity passes on to them “by blood.” And remember, the fewer photos we post for everyone to see, the better our health!

Everything is “in chocolate” for you, but you constantly encounter envious people who strive to ruin your life? the site will tell you how to properly respond to envious people and protect yourself from negativity.

Envy is a natural human feeling, because it is human nature to compare oneself with others in various areas. Therefore, as such, envy has no boundaries: people envy professional prospects, rapid career growth, appearance, health, happy personal life, etc.

Few people like it when they envy him, because envious people seem to emanate negative energy - they weave intrigues behind your back, speak arrogantly or aggressively, try to set you up, in general, they want to harm you in any way.

People with a fine mental structure react especially painfully to envy - sensitive, kind, afraid of offending or offending another. Such people, caught in the sticky networks of envious people, are often doomed to loneliness, constantly suffer from psychosomatic diseases and are in chronic stress.

How to protect yourself from the negative energy of envious people?

Don't brag and talk less about yourself

Undoubtedly, it is nice to share your joys and achievements. But if a person shows his superiority too zealously, brags about his successes, constantly talks about his excellent relationships with management and victories on the personal front, this will in any case irritate people prone to envy.

Therefore, to save yourself from envy, give up the habit of putting yourself above others. And it’s better to talk about your personal life – your husband’s creative successes, excellent-study children and an understanding mother-in-law – only with your family, and not at work. Because there will always be people deprived of family warmth - unhappy wives or single women.

Don't flirt openly at work

Especially with several men at the same time. Even if your professional affairs are going well. This way you won’t make enemies among the female half of the team.

Behave correctly at corporate events

No matter how great your mood is at the party, under no circumstances praise yourself, but rather admire other people, the atmosphere, the work of the host, the performances of the artists, and so on.

Don't show your superiority

If in a group or team you constantly feel your intellectual superiority, do not demonstrate it. You especially shouldn’t do this in relationships with your superiors. Try to use your intellectual potential to grow spiritually and professionally.

Be tactful in your communication

If you have problems with self-esteem, you shouldn’t increase it at the expense of others: “I’m so beautiful and fashionable. No match for you." When communicating, do not offend or embarrass your interlocutors.

Cleanse yourself energetically

When taking a shower in the evening, imagine that you are removing all the negative energy that has accumulated during the day. If possible, take a shower after communicating with an unpleasant person. If this is not possible, wash your hands and wash your face. Do not forget to cleanse yourself in the same way after visiting places that are unpleasant to you, as well as places with large crowds of people.

Perform a third eye massage

Use the bone of the index finger of your right hand to massage the “third eye,” imagining how all negative energy leaves and is neutralized in space.

Use the "Brickwork" method

If your envious person is in the same office with you, and it is not possible to change seats from him, do the “Brickwork” exercise. Imagine that a wall is growing between you and the envious person, brick by brick. Lay the bricks carefully and evenly and secure them with an imaginary mortar. Continue “construction” to a height that is comfortable for you.

If you are surrounded by a whole “flock” of envious people, surround yourself with walls on the right sides. Do this exercise calmly and concentratedly; you don’t need to wish the envious people all sorts of nasty things like: “I’ll wall you up, you’ll know.”

Take advantage of the power of nature

Try to take a walk during your lunch break in a park or square. Go to a tree, breathe in its aroma, lean against it. If there are no trees nearby or there is no desire/opportunity to walk, place branches of poplar, aspen or lilac on the table - they help protect against negative energy. You can also place a pot of ivy on the table or sew yourself a sachet filled with dried periwinkle leaves and carry it with you.

People envy me, how can I protect myself from negativity?

All this takes time. But what should those who constantly, for example, due to duty, need to communicate with envious people do? Tolerate envy and humiliation? To remain in splendid isolation? Of course not!

How to deal with envious people?

Don't make excuses

If you hear “fantastic” stories about yourself that clearly differ from reality, do not fly into rage or, conversely, tears, and do not turn away from the conflict. Firmly and briefly tell the envious person that what he/she is now saying is not true.

You should not indulge in arguments about why this is not true, how things really are, and so on. Remember, any justification you make will be regarded by your opponent as his personal victory. And you don't need it at all. Firmly stop the gossiper and return to your business as if nothing had happened.

People envy me, how can I protect myself from negativity?

Try to improve your relationship

In some cases, an envious person may be a good person, but very unhappy and angry with life. And it's not your fault. You can establish good business contacts or even make friends with such a person. How to do it? It is necessary to increase the self-esteem of the interlocutor.

Stages of increasing the self-esteem of the interlocutor:

1. In a conversation, find out what values ​​this person has. Talk about these values, you will probably agree on something. Be sure to say that you support such and such.
2. When communicating, find out what this person does better than you. For example, he bakes pancakes, glues wallpaper, and does good math in his head.
3. As if in passing, mention that pancakes, unfortunately, are not your thing, you’ve never hung wallpaper, and you can’t imagine your life without a calculator. It is important not to invent anything or exaggerate. Your inability must be real, otherwise your interlocutor will sense a catch. If you can’t find several inabilities in yourself, discuss one thing. The main thing is to be sincere. When your opponent believes that you are inferior to him in at least some way, he will calm down.
4. Ask your opponent to teach you something. Ask how to properly prepare pancake dough, what type of pan should be used, ask to be taught some mental counting methods. Even if you're not particularly interested in something like this, it's worth doing for two reasons. First - so you will give